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CHILDREN'S STORIES OF RESILIENCE

“This is my story”: Children's war memoirs and challenging protectionist discourses

Overview

The mission of the Help War Victims is to help prevent and alleviate human suffering in the face of emergencies. Across all the ways we provide help and hope to others - from bringing disaster relief, providing lifesaving blood and training in lifesaving skills, to reaching across borders to reconnect families and supporting military families - HWV makes a big impact.

Explore this collection of stories and experience that the HWV brings to everyday people, every day. If what you see inspires you, consider supporting our mission financially, by making a blood donation or becoming a volunteer.

A JOURNEY WITH ROAD BUMPS BUT BAYAN (11) REFUSES TO SURRENDER

A JOURNEY WITH ROAD BUMPS BUT BAYAN (11) REFUSES TO SURRENDER

One year on from the Beirut explosions and two years into the COVID-19 pandemic, Lebanon is on the brink of collapse. While the sustained economic and political crisis has affected all areas of life, the lack of education options for young people is fueling a new era of hopelessness. That’s unless you’re 11-year old Bayan. Disability, exclusion, isolation - these are just road bumps on her journey…

SRI LANKAN MALAR (17) IS MOVING ON FROM GRIEF

SRI LANKAN MALAR (17) IS MOVING ON FROM GRIEF

Sri Lanka’s bitter civil war deprived Malar of her father - leaving her to support her mother in any way she can. Malar doesn’t get many chances to enjoy a regular childhood - but her participation in our TeamUp programme has seen her begin to plan for a better future. She shares her story here.

RAMI (10) IS GROWING UP UNDER THE GAZA BLOCKADE

RAMI (10) IS GROWING UP UNDER THE GAZA BLOCKADE

Gaza – perceived as the world’s largest open-air jail - is home to 1.8 million people, two thirds of whom are under 25 years old. Robbed of their future, children remain at the mercy of life under blockade. Children like Rami and his brothers...

LAILA (12) CAN’T GO TO SCHOOL - BUT STILL WORKS TOWARDS A BETTER FUTURE

LAILA (12) CAN’T GO TO SCHOOL - BUT STILL WORKS TOWARDS A BETTER FUTURE

Imagine not going to school for five years due to the devastating war in Syria. Then undertaking a terrifying flight to Lebanon, trying to process difficult memories - only for the COVID-19 pandemic to close your school again. Then the devastating Beirut explosions happened. Still, Laila is working towards a better future.

HEBA (12) AND CHAIMA'S (12) RENEWED FRIENDSHIP IN GAZA

HEBA (12) AND CHAIMA'S (12) RENEWED FRIENDSHIP IN GAZA

War Child’s Helping Children Heal project provides protection and recreation opportunities to the most marginalised children in Gaza. It also provides a space where friendship can blossom away from violent conflict - as the story of Heba and Chaima shows…

YONAS (14) IS ON A JOURNEY TOWARDS PEACE OF MIND

YONAS (14) IS ON A JOURNEY TOWARDS PEACE OF MIND

Yonas and Kidane fled the totalitarian regime in Eritrea together with their brothers and parents. The boys are now settled in the Dutch province of Drenthe - where they find some much needed stability through the TeamUp programme. The brothers share their experiences with us here…

LAILA (15) FROM GAZA USES SOCIAL MEDIA TO DEFEND CHILDREN'S RIGHTS

LAILA (15) FROM GAZA USES SOCIAL MEDIA TO DEFEND CHILDREN'S RIGHTS

Laila (15) is used to the fragility of life in the Gaza Strip. Yet, that familiar feeling of being awoken in the early hours by the sound of an approaching airstrike hasn't gotten any easier. Laila would revisit years of fear and violence as she fled her apartment block just minutes before the explosion - her youngest sister in her arms.

FROM UKRAINE TO MOLDOVA - THIS IS IHOR'S (15) STORY OF RESILIENCE

FROM UKRAINE TO MOLDOVA - THIS IS IHOR'S (15) STORY OF RESILIENCE

When the war in Ukraine reached his hometown, Ihor (15) and his family packed their bags and fled. Days later, they would arrive in a small village in neighbouring Moldova. As War Child and other humanitarian organisations prepare to move in, the local community has banded together to support families. An escape from reality, Ihor spends his days playing Fortnite on the Playstation. This is his story.

MUNA (6) ATTENDS SCHOOL AT THE WAR CHILD SAFE SPACE NEAR HER REFUGEE SETTLEMENT

MUNA (6) ATTENDS SCHOOL AT THE WAR CHILD SAFE SPACE NEAR HER REFUGEE SETTLEMENT

Muna and her family escaped the brutal civil war in Syria to find safety in Jordan. Yet life as a refugee is far from easy - and the spread of the COVID-19 pandemic has made life harder still. The space where she would attend lessons is currently closed - yet Muna hasn’t let that stop her from continuing her education

NEWFOUND CRAFT TO RECLAIM HER FUTURE

NEWFOUND CRAFT TO RECLAIM HER FUTURE

When Edisa was forced to flee her home in Burundi, life changed irreversibly. Arriving at a refugee camp in eastern DR Congo, she faced hunger, uncertainty and then, the sudden death of her father. With little means to build a better life, Edisa felt 'useless' and shunned by her community. Yet, she was about to surprise everyone - most of all herself - with the support of our vocational training programme...

NOTHING IS STANDING IN MULHAM'S (14) WAY OF ACHIEVING HIS DREAMS

NOTHING IS STANDING IN MULHAM'S (14) WAY OF ACHIEVING HIS DREAMS

Like many refugee children in Lebanon, Mulham had to drop out of school and work to support his family. The days were long and arduous, yet he remained determined to pursue an education. That was apparent the moment he joined our Can't Wait to Learn programme...

OUR INCLUSIVE EDUCATION HELPED LEBANESE GHAITH (11) COME A LONG WAY

OUR INCLUSIVE EDUCATION HELPED LEBANESE GHAITH (11) COME A LONG WAY

Children like Ghaith with disabilities living in situations of crisis and armed conflict face a number of specific challenges - particularly accessing their fundamental right to an education. War Child is working to make inclusion central to all our activities - including our education projects in Lebanon.

HOW BABY NEMA FOUND LOVE ON A GARBAGE HEAP

HOW BABY NEMA FOUND LOVE ON A GARBAGE HEAP

It's an all too familiar site - a town in South Sudan left ravaged and half-empty as a result of armed conflict. Perhaps less common - a baby abandoned on a garbage heap. In her first years of life, Nema lost everything to violence. But, with a little support, the community is taking her under their wing...

PEOPLE USED TO BE AFRAID OF RAMINE (16). NOW, THEY WELCOME HIM.

PEOPLE USED TO BE AFRAID OF RAMINE (16). NOW, THEY WELCOME HIM.

Hundreds of thousands of children are active in armed groups in over 20 countries around the world. Some are lured in by promises of education, security or money. Others are indoctrinated or forced to fight. Recruited by rebels when he was just 12-years-old, Ramine knows all too well how quickly things can spiral. Find out how War Child is helping him start over.

ALAA (11) IS REBUILDING FAMILY TIES THROUGH OUR DEALS PROGRAMME

ALAA (11) IS REBUILDING FAMILY TIES THROUGH OUR DEALS PROGRAMME

Alaa fled Syria eight years ago with her parents and two brothers. She has been living in Jordan ever since, near its capital Amman. Alaa misses Syria, but she is happy to feel safe and free. “Every day I participate in War Child's activities," she says. "I learn something new every day..."

ROGER (15) FLED WAR IN BURUNDI. WHAT IS NEXT FOR HIM?

ROGER (15) FLED WAR IN BURUNDI. WHAT IS NEXT FOR HIM?

Following the end of a 12-year-long civil war in 2005, Burundi has continued to experience brutal human rights abuses and political unrest. Roger's family originally included his father, mother and seven siblings. But after rebel’s raided their home in Burundi, Roger and his parents found the other six children hanged in the barn. They ran, unable to say goodbye or bury his siblings – eventually arriving in Uganda.

SAMUEL'S (8) JOURNEY TO SAFETY IN DR CONGO

SAMUEL'S (8) JOURNEY TO SAFETY IN DR CONGO

There are currently an estimated 45,000 Burundians living as refugees in neighbouring DR Congo - on the run from violence and armed conflict. Nearly half of these refugees are children - children like Samuel. He was just four years old when the violence in his country erupted. Now, he takes part in the creative and educational activities of our I-DEAL programme in DR Congo.

PLATON (6) FLED WITH HIS FAMILY FROM KYIV, UKRAINE

PLATON (6) FLED WITH HIS FAMILY FROM KYIV, UKRAINE

“We heard a loud boom and suddenly we all had to get in the car very quickly. After two days in a traffic jam, we got out and walked.” Six-year-old Platon fled the war in Kyiv with his brother, sister and parents. Now, the family are seeking shelter in an empty guesthouse in Romania. This is Platon’s story.

FOR SANAA (11), OUR BACK TO THE FUTURE PROGRAMME IS A STEPPING STONE

FOR SANAA (11), OUR BACK TO THE FUTURE PROGRAMME IS A STEPPING STONE

Sanaa hadn’t ever attended school. When her mother found out about the “Back to the Future” project, the 11-year-old was one phone call away from being registered in BLN (Basic Literacy and Numeracy) program at Terre des Hommes Italy center in Mount Lebanon.

LAITH (6) IS LEARNING SAFELY FROM 'HOME' DESPITE THE COVID-19 PANDEMIC

LAITH (6) IS LEARNING SAFELY FROM 'HOME' DESPITE THE COVID-19 PANDEMIC

Schools across Jordan are still closed due to the coronavirus pandemic. This means that thousands of Jordanian and refugee children are currently denied their fundamental right to an education. To help address this War Child is working with children like Laith and his family to ensure he can continue to learn, safely from home

ALEX (7) IS BUILDING A PAPER ARMY TO DEFEND HIS PEOPLE FROM ATTACK

ALEX (7) IS BUILDING A PAPER ARMY TO DEFEND HIS PEOPLE FROM ATTACK

Teacher, actor, doctor, astronaut - what does Alex (7) want to be when he grows up? “I want to be a soldier”, he says. “Then, we can win our land back.”

NELSON (15) IS MOVING BEYOND ANGER IN UGANDA

NELSON (15) IS MOVING BEYOND ANGER IN UGANDA

The events refugees experience on their journeys to safety are distressing enough - yet the effects of violence, separation and fear continue once they find sanctuary. TeamUp is designed to support refugee children to process these experiences - like Nelson who escaped brutal violence in DR Congo…

Success Story - Stopping Rape as a Weapon of War in Congo

The 15-year-old girl, looking even younger than her years, lay on a mattress in a shelter in eastern Congo, her sleeping newborn son beside her. "I was just coming back from the river to fetch water," Regine told Juliane Kippenberg, senior children's rights researcher for Human Rights Watch. "Two soldiers came up to me and told me that if I refuse to sleep with them, they will kill me. They beat me and ripped my clothes. One of the soldiers raped me."

Regine's parents brought her to the local army commander. "I recognized the two soldiers, and I know that one of them is called Edouard," she told Kippenberg. The commander said Regine was lying.

Sadly, Regine, whose name has been changed in this article to protect her identity, is one of thousands of women and girls who were raped during the Congo's brutal conflict. The United Nations estimates that 200,000 women and girls have been the victims of sexual violence since 1998. In 2008 alone, nearly 16,000 rapes were reported in Congo. In the east of the country, a battleground for government troops, militias, and foreign armies, sexual violence is practiced systematically by many fighters. Since January 2009 attacks on civilians have increased, with both government soldiers and militia fighters committing horrendous sexual crimes.

When Kippenberg started investigating sexual violence in Congo for Human Rights Watch nearly a decade ago, there was little awareness about the problem. She wrote the report The War Within the War in 2002, helping put the issue on the international agenda. A second report in 2005 highlighted the need for national prosecutions and called for a new law to broaden the definition of sexual violence and strengthen penalties.

For the past five years, Human Rights Watch's researchers in Goma have helped raise awareness of sexual violence in Congo and internationally by documenting rape, working with women's rights activists to organize advocacy efforts, lobbying judicial officials on cases, and urging journalists to cover the issue. We pressed governments and organizations to improve support for victims and start addressing sexual violence on the political level.

Human Rights Watch became concerned, however, that despite growing awareness of the massive scale of sexual violence in Congo, rape was not decreasing. Very few soldiers had been prosecuted for rape, nor had any higher-level commanders. In early 2009, Kippenberg and her colleagues took on a new investigation. She focused on the 14th brigade of the Congolese Army, whose record illustrates some of the broader problems contributing to sexual violence: internal divisions, chaotic chain of command, impunity, and poor living conditions for soldiers. Kippenberg interviewed not only the victims but also soldiers. She and her colleagues also spoke to military justice officials, who said army commanders frequently block their investigations.

Finally, this summer, after years of campaigning, we started to see some movement. In July, just before our most recent report on sexual violence was published, President Joseph Kabila agreed to meet with Human Rights Watch. Human Rights Watch's executive director, Kenneth Roth, and the senior researcher on Congo, Anneke Van Woudenberg, met with President Kabila in a tent on the shores of Lake Kivu. "We made the greatest progress on an anti-rape strategy," Roth says.

Human Rights Watch then held a press conference in Goma where we loudly criticized the brutal abuses by all belligerents to the conflict, including the widespread rape by government soldiers.

In a decisive step soon after the meeting with Kabila and our press conference, the military announced a zero-tolerance policy for sexual violence and other abuses. Since July, several rape trials have been opened, one leading to the conviction of two high-level officers. Another officer has recently been arrested, accused of raping a 28-year-old woman and persuading three other soldiers to rape her too. Four other high-level officers are under investigation for related charges.

In August, Human Rights Watch briefed US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton's specialist on women's issues and our Goma office helped to organize a meeting between Secretary Clinton and women's rights activists during her visit to Congo. Following these meetings, Secretary Clinton expressed serious concern at the lack of sexual violence prosecutions and pledged US$17 million in aid for victims of sexual violence.

After so many years of working on this issue, Kippenberg is encouraged by the new developments but also cautious. She wants to make sure that prosecutions continue and that the military actually changes its policies. She knows it will take continuing advocacy to keep the Congolese government and donor governments focused on ending sexual violence. "For justice to prevail," Kippenberg says, "senior military officials must continue to be investigated and prosecuted for sexual crimes."

Regine still faces tough choices. Her family has told her she may come home-but without her baby. If the army finally begins to take rape prosecutions seriously, other girls might not have to live through such horror.

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